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Question #1211431832Thursday, 22-May-2008
Category: Typing ESFj ISFp
So, there's this girl (you can all see where this is going I'm sure). I'm pretty undecided as to her type and need opinions. My first guess was ESFJ, but now I'm strongly thinking ISFP. She will try to plan dates and get the time, place etc. several days in advance. Generally I put this off until the day thereof, and she seems okay with this but tries to set things up a bit ahead of time anyway - I've noticed ENFP's do this too, though. T vs. F, her behavior seems kind of cold sometimes... but it could just be shyness. Despite this I'm fairly sure she's F. She has no T-type interests and seems rather fashion-oriented. On that note, I'm also pretty sure she's Sensing. She doesn't seem to have the deep, abstract thought pattern of an N character. She tends toward small talk and personal stories. ISFP's always seemed like the types that would be quickly scared off by my devil's advocacy and general insanity, but I've openly displayed this in her presence and she doesn't seem slighted by it. Her bedroom is a mess (granted, she shares it with her ENFP sister) and she lined one of its walls with school posters and magazine cut-outs. She seems very naive by my standards. Her intelligence is about average, maybe just slightly below. Aesthetically, she's has an attractive, proportionate figure with kind of a round face. Romantically, to be honest I'm not very interested in her so far but figured I'd give it a shot anyway. She seems attracted to me. What do you guys think her type is? -- ENTP Shatterbrain
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A1 Except for the planning in advance part, she sounds kind of like me. But what makes you think she's attracted to you? -- Maggie (isfp)
A2 Hmm... she makes active attempts to hang out with me. She's very flirty over the 'net (lol, myspace, teen idiocy haven) but less so IRL. This could be attributed to manipulation or simply shyness. I talked to her for a few hours on the phone today and she jabbered pretty much nonstop which always seemed like an ESF thing to me, so now I'm mentally entertaining the possibility she's E, though she only seems to get talkative one on one or in a very small group. She doesn't seem to be an ESFP to me... she lacks the histrionic demeanor, though she does seem to be a partygoer (E). -- Shatterbrain
A3 Sounds ISFP to me. She's probobly just exited that your actually talking to her. -- Maggie
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