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| Question #1208808341 | Monday, 21-Apr-2008 |
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| there was recently this question...which Type has the most gays. it came out that INTJ's fit the 'closet class' best, and that the duals of ISTP's...ENFP's were the 'most out there class'{and that ISTPs such as the great poster iAnnAu could capitalize on there duals vibe..quite sensibily with a play that comes from deep within the ISTP psyche}. This is my question...i just want to know what is the ENFP correlary to this theorem. the THEOREM for INTJ Homosexuals: "as the PoLR of the INTJ is body care centred...it occurs to me that they, in the normal path of suffering given to and INT would predispose toward homosexuality". so how would an ENFP PoLR predispose to there process. Otherwise being the great INTP sirac, i would say hold on...for another feature this site has shown us is that INTPs fail miserably in relationships were they have been recognized to early... -- @sirac |
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| A11 I don't understand the INTJ-body-conscious thing, either. Sorry. I don't even know much about socionics. I can tell u how I found my gay feelings, though, & that I'm ENFP through & through. So, I have to tell u that being gay starts with biology. My parents are Mexican, Catholic, and taught me that God made man and woman to love each other, so when at age 11 we had to get naked in the locker rooms for the first time & change our clothes, it bothered me how much I wanted to stare at them & that I would sneak looks, anyway. I didn't know or care to understand what sexual feelings were; the staring was just weird to me. Age 13, I somehow offended a friend, & she says, "Why wouldn't you fall in love with a woman?" & I thought in agreement, 'Why wouldn't I?' It dawned on me that I had never bothered to include homosexuals in my thoughts on the power & beauty of love, because I didn't know any gay people & just never had to think about what it meant to be gay. My parents always told me they were cross-dressing perverts, & I suddenly realized how wrong they were to say that. The following year, age 14, I was still "checking people out" (I finally realized) & decided that, to figure these inclinations out, now that I understood I was ok with the world having ppl of different orientations, that I should not be ashamed if I had homosexual feelings myself. Sure enough, my first raw urge quietly came with a very intimate, very special hug from a friend that, because of all the fantasies I had with her for 2 years, I labeled my first girl crush. My heterosexuality had emerged the same time, same way, in fact. I had ambiguous feelings in middle school & urges to stare at boys, & in high school, just like with the lesbian feelings, I decided to figure out what these strange feelings were for. Age 15, I finally came out to the world as bisexual & have experimented quite a bit for the fun of it since then & to make sure. I'm now 18. Characteristically ENFP, I thrive on new possibilities, am greatly invested in the ppl around me, tend to think that following rules will deprive ppl of something amazing, & I tend to follow my emotions, & I improvise & play quite a bit. I can't stand the thought of living strictly gay or straight if the truth is that I like both boys & girls. I want to know myself completely, & I want others to know the real me, too. I hate deception. I hate it when ppl give in without question & are just echoing arbitrary ideas, when ppl conform without bothering to try to think for themselves & figure out what morals & values are true to who they really are, & not who society says they should be. I'm not just talking about sexuality here. I love life, & I will not waste the only one I might ever have. ...ok, bit carried away, feeling empowered there. ANYWAY... what I'm trying to say is, I believe that my feelings became inadvertently stronger as I sought to understand them, but the fact is that I would not have bothered to think about it if they weren't already there for me to think about. I was worried & hoping I was straight because life is a bit harder if u're not, but I did not want to be fake. If I did not believe so much in variety & love & fun & possibilty & authenticity (ENFP values), then I would perhaps have kept these feelings to myself & tried better to restrain them. I would not be an ENFP, but the homosexual feelings would still have been there without anyone knowing. Conclusion: Type doesn't indicate sexuality - just how likely someone is to admit the truth. -- reina (ENFP bisexual) |
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