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| Question #1207129500 | Wednesday, 2-Apr-2008 |
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| what would an infj and enfp be like together? -- envision |
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| A7 wow, A5 is a classic example of someone who should research personality type before they make accusations about people's motives and intentions. Pretty typical of the NFJ, though to see every move of an ENFP and judge it, literally as being stupid. NFJ's are cars, and NFP's are airplanes. When NFJ's look at the airplanes, all they see are 3 wheels, and a bunch of wasted metal stacked on top of the wheels. When you're driving down the road, though, and you're SURE you are the only vehicle heading in the right direction (because you can't see the NFP's...) the airplane is flying 30,000 miles above your head, processing the world in ways you can't ever imagine, down there on your lonely ME ME ME road. I forgot to mention the smiley faces that the NFJ's like to paint all over their car, so everybody thinks they are happy to see them. It's only a cover, though, and as it turns out, when it comes to being truly happy, understanding the big picture, and changing the world, the AIRPLANES find themselves in a completely different league than the smiley face cars (NFJ's) No offense, but this has been my experience with every NFJ I've known. You try so hard to convince the world you're happy, but you're in deep realization that you're not, so you need to blow other's candles out, making yours feel brighter. If you can convince the world exactly how stupid all of us NFP's are, you just might be able to convince yourself that a car would win that hypothetical race described above. but alas, it would take you too much effort to ever try to understand anything from an NFP's perspective, and half way through a healthy debate, you'd probably just nod your head, hold out your hand to shake in agreement, and **** on my leg while I whole-heartedly-but-gullibly reach out my hand to shake yours. When it's all said and done, the smiley face paint will never convince an NFP that you're really happy. We can easily see through the glass, if we try hard enough. It's generally not worth the effort though, and we let you think you're getting away with being fake, because we know in the long run, you'll always be hiding. -- gatorchaser |
| A8 this is such a good explanation -- MMR |
| A9 All is said pretty much, you can make a clear vision from enfp point of view, and from infj point of view. My situation is pretty much simillar. They are so unstable, so emotional, so passionate, he dreams a lot etc. He says he wants to change for me and all that, even though I'm not even asking to change, but he knows he does mistakes, but yet it always get the same. It's crazy, even for me his life is a chaos, and in some way it is really repelling, but in other ways it is really attractive, and since I'm patient and tolerant I keep looking forward, believed I help him. But I couldn't stay for the lifetime with him. He can really drive me crazy and oppositely, sometimes I wanna kill him, sometimes I love him more than anything. But this is tiring and I believe I'll leave him one day. -- Anonymous |
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| A10 i am am enfp who happened to be in love with an infj, to tell you honestly, we enfps are quite shallow in a way we wanted to be "on stage or on the center of everything", we wanted attention. . . and being with an infj is like fulfilling that emptiness inside us that we always longed for. Of all the personality types, infj amazes me most, they are just so wise and so full of mystery that keeps the curiosities of enfps ablazed and keeps them going and not be bored. Infjs need enfp's extrovertness and enfps need the introvertness of infjs, enfps love to talk and infjs love to listen but we enfps also know how to listen, though not as good as infjs do, we can actually listen.. Yes its true that we need constant encouragement and we often seem shallow and easily discouraged but we, also enfps have something in us that we value, you just sometimes couldn't see it because its covered by our extrovertedness. To sum up all, infjs for me are the most amazing persons in this life.anonymous -- Anonymous |
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