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Old 16/06/2008, 08:18 PM
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Extend to practical life matters........? lol :S
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:20 PM
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Extend to practical life matters........? lol :S
Seriously. Like keeping track of things, conserving money...
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:22 PM
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Yeah, yeah I knew that. I was just testing ya. Keeping your senses sharp. You know how it goes.
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:26 PM
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Yeah, yeah I knew that. I was just testing ya. Keeping your senses sharp. You know how it goes.
I'm confused that you'd feel you would need to. *shrugs* I'm not gonna smack you down over it or anything; it was just bewildering.
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:32 PM
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Seriously. Like keeping track of things, conserving money...
Actually I think it's mainly J's that are good at that aren't they? Because their so organised so they'd be good at handling money
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:34 PM
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Actually I think it's mainly J's that are good at that aren't they? Because their so organised so they'd be good at handling money
To a degree. My mother handles the finances but is also a spender.
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:37 PM
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Yeah...Whats it like havinga ESFj round the house...They quite relaxed N that...y'know..just chillin out in front of the TV...or they be the ones constantly tidying up all the time around the house, lol
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Old 16/06/2008, 08:50 PM
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Yeah...Whats it like havinga ESFj round the house...They quite relaxed N that...y'know..just chillin out in front of the TV...or they be the ones constantly tidying up all the time around the house, lol
We somewhat get along. We can joke together, though sometimes I feel she is too spontaneous (admittedly, I can be the same way). She has been known to ruin serious moments in movies with stupid comments.

An example - We're watching Fellowship of the Ring, specifically the scene where Elrond is talking to Aragorn in front of Aragorn's mother's grave. I come in.
Mom: You didn't hear my joke, did you? Elrond is saying to Aragorn, "You are the last of your line." Yeah, unless you've got something to tell [me].
Me: .......*grins* Like a twin sister?
Mom: Yeah.

So we get along in that way. Generally, I end up being the "straight man" in that I try to curb her enthusiasm. Considering I can be the same way, it may be a leading/creative clash*. She gets aggravated because I don't do the chores and I am unwilling to take initiative. She gets irritated because I seem to ignore her. On the other hand, I get aggravated when she berates me, doesn't give much sympathy (she seems quicker to tell me what's wrong with me than offer understanding), and assumes things that aren't true. She also comes across as irrational, over-sensitive (imagining someone has something against her even if he/she doesn't), and unable to take what she dishes out (where negativity is concerned). She's great at interior design; our walls look pretty good. Ironically, her favorite color (yellow) is one I can't stand. My favorite instance recently was when she brought home some stuff to decorate the new dance studio with (she takes care of the finances there), and the golden-yellow toilet seat cover she held up faded into the wall. She does compliment me when I do something right, but it doesn't really sink in; it feels like she's telling me I've actually done something right. So I don't feel very appreciated. I'm sure she doesn't either. Maybe it's a difference of functional or quadra values.

*Basically, because Fe is my creative (if I'm INFp), I don't put as much emphasis or importance on it as she does, being Fe-leading. Therefore, I will try to bring hers down somewhat in favor of my leading function.
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Old 16/06/2008, 09:04 PM
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Hve you read up the relations between a INFp and a ESFj? Apparently its a supervisor relation. Maybe you should read it if it makes any sense
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Old 16/06/2008, 09:10 PM
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I don't know. It seems like my mother should be the one to look at that. I can't tell how she feels.
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Old 16/06/2008, 09:28 PM
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yeah but kensi thinks he's INTj or something lol----quote #16
Where did you get this? i don't think that !
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Old 16/06/2008, 09:50 PM
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Where did you get this? i don't think that !
What makes you not think that?
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Old 17/06/2008, 06:10 AM
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What makes you not think that?
This is usually SP humour, my SP friend.
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Old 17/06/2008, 10:16 AM
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This is usually SP humour, my SP friend.
Compatible with ESFp, but still not incompatible with ISTp.
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Old 17/06/2008, 03:37 PM
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Compatible with ESFp, but still not incompatible with ISTp.
I had figured you were serious, not joking.
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I had figured you were serious, not joking.
Honestly when I asked him why couldn't he be an INTj I was simply provoking, not joking, nor being serious. I wanted to argue with him for the pleasure of it.
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Old 17/06/2008, 03:55 PM
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Honestly when I asked him why couldn't he be an INTj I was simply provoking, not joking, nor being serious. I wanted to argue with him for the pleasure of it.
*laughs* One of those types, are we? We must verbally spar some time.
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Old 18/06/2008, 10:01 PM
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Well.... If I'm not Delta quadra, next choice would be Alpha. Surely I'm not ESE. Is there such thing an an ISFp who is more hedonistic than health-conscious/seeking?
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Old 18/06/2008, 10:04 PM
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Am I really all about pleasuring myself? Thats what hedonistic means right
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Old 18/06/2008, 10:10 PM
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*laughs* I didn't mean you; I was asking in relation to myself. I like what feels, looks, smells, tastes, and sounds good, but I'm not interested in taking care of myself (too much effort when there are other things I want to do). So I was asking if that can still qualify as Si-ego.
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