I'm a 20 year old ENFJ girl in love with a 21 year old INTP guy. But he doesn't know about it yet. At times i feel he likes me back but is too reserved to display it. At other times i think he's utterly clueless about it. A mutual friend of ours, whom i never told about my crush said yesterday, "he told me you're amazing" but I saw him today expecting something wonderful, and, well...nothing. What's the best way to show an INTP that one likes them or to determine whether my feeling is mutual? ENFJ. -- Anonymous
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A1 Ask him if he wants to go out with you. -- Anonymous
A2 well, I have a friend who is an INTP and the ENFJ that was keen on him. she felt the need to give some pretty strong indications her feelings toward him... She lead him to make a decision in a way... If the whole thing succeeds you must give your INTP freedoom and not be bossy or the relationship will fail... as it did with them -- INTJ friend of INTP
A3 Tell him exactly what you feel and he will be as frank as humanly possible. -- an INTP
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