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Question #1248109254Monday, 20-Jul-2009
Category: ENTp INTj Relationship Advice Attraction
Would an INTJ consider a second attempt at a relatinoship with an ENTP? The INTJ was a great friend and we had a mutual social group. Due to poor timing, the previous relationship attempt ended unsuccesfully-he had just broken up with his long term girlfriend and needed time. He still wanted me around all the time, nonetheless; for dinner; lunch during work; hiking trips; etc. I tried to continue the friendship as usual and saw him often, but eventually I backed away when nothing progressed. The unsuccessful relationship attempt left me with a sense of what if? Now it's a year and a few dating experiences later and we rarely see each other, but when we do the spark is still there. I've heard that once the door closes, INTJs never reopen. INTJ thoughts? -- entp
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A1 I've heard that INTJs don't give people second tries too. I'm curious... -- enfp
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A2 Well, from my experience, unless you were someone EXTREMELY special to him, no. We INTj's get bored easily and things would have ended rather soon anyhow...even if the relationship had been running smoothly. But, having said that, I'm a female INTj and have had two run in's with ENTps. I cared about those two more than anyone else on the face of the planet. So...you might have luck. Might not. -- Anonymous
A3 It may be that he just considers you a close friend now. If so then pursuing the issue sould cost that friendship. You might get lucky if he hasn't actegorised you as a friend and is waiting to see what you do. This is unlikely though so keep in mind that even if you get a second chance there may not be a third. You may even lose him as a friend. Good luck. -- INTj
A4 There might be a chance he feels the same way you do, but INTj's are notoriously poor about taking initiative in relationships. (It's a wonder we haven't died out.) In that case, if you don't make a move, he won't. But, if he has moved on, it wouldn't be immediately apparent. Sorry if he's not that read-able. -- different INTj
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