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| Question #1239969550 | Friday, 17-Apr-2009 |
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| What's the best way to ask an ISFp guy out? How does one go about winning their hearts? -- Anonymous |
Your Answers: 1+ |
| A1 Just ask him. There's no mystery or science behind it. -- INTj laddie |
| A2 Tell him there's no risk involved... -- ENTp |
| A3 I'm an ISFp girl but I'm friends with three ISFp guys so hopefully I will be able to help. ISFp guys are very reserved... as you probably know. So I'm trying to figure out how you know he's an ISFp? but the best way to ask him out is to get to know him really well. my boyfriend got to know me for 4 years and he asked me out 2 weeks ago. So basically what I'm saying is get to know him for a while and then when he's comfortable doing the things he loves then tell him you would like to pursue a more in depth relationship with him and see where that leads you two. -- Anonymous |
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A4 Hah, I just realized today, my best friend since middle school is ISFp.. and I was here thinking I don't know any ISFps. We became inseparable since the first day our teachers made us sit together. I have another friend I've recently bonded with who's ISFp as well. Well, they are impressed with ideas. Feed their brains with new interesting perspectives, be nice to them and show interest in them (which will naturally come if you're an ENTp) and they will automatically go gaga over you and follow you around. I promise. If you're ENTp, they will say a lot about your deepest feelings which you never knew and take away a humongous nasty burden from you since ENTps tend to neglect their emotional needs, not be aware of them and they do NOT know how and can not go about fulfilling their emotional desires. ISFps just know how ENTps are feeling and they just say the right thing to make it better. The phrase "Wouldn't hurt a fly" is literally applied to them, so ask him out and don't worry, they'll make sure you won't be hurt even if they turn you down since they genuinely care about what you're feeling.  -- Anonymous |
| A5 As and ISFP guy myself, I can tell you that we can be rather fickle. One minute, were sociable and another reserved. If you want to pursue a relationship with an ISFP, get to know him as a friend first, and dont forget to them and give him some space every now and then. Also, develop a taste for art. Were naturally aesthetics and enjoy experiencing beauty. -- An ISFP guy |
| A6 Since the thread has been revitalised, I'll take the opportunity to correct myself for the snap-on-the-trigger statement in A2. In this forum I have been experiencing ISFp's managing to extend my narrow enevelope of understanding and impression I have had about them formerly. And yes, they are able to take risks I have come to realize. It is the motivation behind the risks that differ from mine, something that still question the duality aspect in that niche of interrelation, but that is probably just as well a problem on my account than just solely on theirs. I'll take that revelation of understanding as a sign of growth by the way. -- ENTp |
| A7 I strongly agree with A3. Tell him to invite you for lunch or coffee, or to ask you to just hang out. -- ENFp |
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