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Question #1217630428Friday, 1-Aug-2008
Category: INFj ESFj Relationship Intertype Relations
I'm a male INFJ and I'm in love with an female ESFJ. Right now were just friends, but I want to know more about our type compatibility. Would a relationship between the two types turn out well? Thanks. -- INFJ (male)
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A1 In Socionics, you are Semi-Dual partners (see the Relations section). This is not supposed to be the most compatible of relationships, but if you feel the two of you might get along, my advice is, don't care about theory and try practice. -- Ezis (ESFp)
A2 That's not a Semi-Dual relationship, it's a Illusionary Relationship. The Semi-Dual of an INFj is ENTj, not ESFj. The description for Illusionary Relations is here http://www.socionics.com/rel/ill.htm -- An INFj
A3 Sorry, seems I had it wrong all the time. -- Ezis (ESFp)
A4 Are you sure you're not actually INFp? This type is frequently attracted to/by ESFj. -- Anonymous
A5 I find this very interesting because I am an ESFJ female and I have a male INFJ friend that I am very attracted to. We have been on a few dates and I am overwhelmed by his depth and his intellect. He is quite socially awkward while I love the limelight, but it makes me endeared to him all the more. Everything I read about this type says it doesn't work (due to the ESFJ's emotions, manipulations, neediness, and lack of intellect - harsh!!) but I have to say I don't agree. I know our thought processes work very differently and that could be a bit of a strain. Any thoughts? -- Anonymous
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A6 Im a male Infj dating a female Esfj, and i love her to pieces. She doesn't think like me, but what I can't figure or see, she does, which has kept my a$$ out of alot of trouble. I'd kill myself if she ever left me. I love her till death do us part. -- Anonymous
A7 I'm also an Infj male who is dating a Esfj female. I find her very interesting and am very drawn to her. Early on we've discussed that our thought processes are different however even with this in mind we've come to the conclusion that our mutual attraction and common ideals fit quite nicely. I also find that our similar traits where FJ play quite delightful and comforting. I find this relationship very interesting and am very attracted to her despite the fact I am more used to dating an Entp or Enfp. On this particular site it recommends that the ideal relationship is our dual which I find equally as interesting. I've never thought about dating an ESTJ before. -- Anonymous
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