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| Question #1214470572 | Thursday, 26-Jun-2008 |
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| I am an INTp woman and attracted to an INFp man. We are already good friends and get along pretty well, we have great conversations and all that. I'd like to get closer to him and i think he wants the same thing. I'm worried that if we have a romantic relationship together it just may not work out well cos of the "heaviness" caused by the comparative relationship. And i don't want to blow our friendship. Anyone been in the same situation: either as INTp/INFp or Comparative? Any ideas, suggestions? Thanks in advance -- Carrie |
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| A1 Due to my studies in socionics I've kind of gotten into a mode where I think romantic pairings are best when it's within the same quadra. It doesn't have to be, at all, but I personally think that the two people just need to be more careful about what they want out of the relationship. You can use all kinds of different systems to determine whether a match will work, including the MBTI (which would probably give a thumbs up to INTp-INFp), but ultimately it depends on the two people and whether they have enough "chemistry" to make it work. -- econdude |
| A2 Never been romantic with an INFp but i've got a cousin who is one. It can get a bit heavy but overall we feel very comfortable being together. It would be a safe relationship, maybe a little boring at times but well, good luck -- fellow INTp |
| A3 INTP here-I was in a relationship with an INFP. He amazed me in every way and I loved his creativity and his mind. However, when it came down to it, I was so T and he was so F, and neither willing to learn how to really compromise, that I ended up emasculating him. He turned into a spiteful liar, and I realized I couldn't be with someone who was so unplanned and careless. He bumbles through life, screws up, and can never see cause and effect or learn from his mistakes. It scared me so thoroughly that I broke up with him. Keep this in mind-INFPs will always create a reality that does not coincide with the real world, nor do they make decisions based on logic, which irritated me to no end. Ex INFP has been homeless and jobless for three years, and apparently, it's not too uncommon for NFPs. -- Anonymous |
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