I am an ISTJ female, being of a strong S preference and borderline J/P preference. I have been talking to 2 different guys...an ENFJ and an ESFJ. I seem to have more of a spark and really connect better with the ESFJ regarding meaningful conversations but the ENFJ has the imaginative/creativity there that I like. The ENFJ is a more stable person but seems like too much of a "people pleaser" and a bit of a story-teller, so I feel that I hardly have a chance to talk about who we both are and want in life. I must admit the attraction to the ESFJ is a bit stronger but considering that the ENFJ is my dual, should I give him more of a chance in actually dating? I am not sure who I'd be happiest with in dating....I am too confused!?! Can anyone give me some ideas as to what I should do? -- ISTJ
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A1 Yes, you should... not listen to what anyone says, and do what you think is right. -- Anonymous
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