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| Question #1174972113 | Tuesday, 27-Mar-2007 |
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| What are the key differences between ISFj and ISTj behavior in formal settings? -- anybody |
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A1 It depends on the "formal setting." Both share  , extraverted sensing, as a creative function, spontaneous realization. Meaning that both are focused on the here and now -- they will each try to create a tangible order to things, and thereafter manage or orchestrate that order. Both are also introverted rationals, meaning that they're dominant function -- the most apparent factor in their behavior -- is their judging function. The ISTj will conduct himself (herself) in a certain way because it makes logical sense to him (her) to do so. The ISFj on the other hand will behave in a way that seems to him or her to be most socially appropriate. The confusion comes from the fact that in formal settings, what is logically best and what is socially appropriate are often one in the same. -- Anonymous |
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| A2 LOL ... today I encountered a man who totally V.I.'d like an ISFj, ala Mr. Shatner. He was working the store. It wasn't long before he began conversing about how today was his mum's birthday and he needed to call her soon ... how very ISFj! -- Anonymous |
| A3 In formal settings - ahh, that's the tricky part. Indeed, what kind? Weddings? Office holiday parties? Business meetings? I have found that ISTjs are more likely to be charming and outgoing and talk about work a great deal. They can be welcoming and congenial. Some can even appear quite lively, even ingratiating for approval (either to superiors or in a party setting - ok, not so formal). On the other hand, ISTjs are also able to regularly convey a strong professionalism that is impersonal yet kind, courteous, and strongly vested in the other parties' interests. Any professionalism ISFjs might project would be more due to their own self-composure and inner confidence in their own abilities and priorities, rather than cool diplomacy. Their subjectivity is quite apparent as to whether or not they enjoy the situation and are into or not, or are apathetic to it - inner priorities and feelings. ISFjs are more inclined to be interested in others' needs only if they feel a loyalty and clear sense of responsibility to the interested party. Otherwise, they are quite indifferent to socializing - unless they are meeting a felt, practical need for someone out of a sense of caring or loyalty. ISFjs are apt to be much more withdrawn than ISTjs and just take everything in - being kind, but not projecting themselves forward. Given their subjective outlook, ISFjs have a lower tolerance for enduring social group interaction, even as if "tolerating" it all and just waiting to retreat into their own hermit empire to tend to their own interests. Even with those they enjoy being with, they "have a limit" and then its time to quietly retreat. The ISTjs I've known aren't quite as extreme when it comes to this, although admittedly that's sort of vague. -- Anonymous |
| A4 I'm an ISFJ. One of my good friends is an ISTJ. People say we're a lot alike and we usually get along pretty well. One thing I notice is different between the two of us is he's generally a little colder to people than I am. I usually don't like to make jokes at the expense of other people- and not saying he's rude or anything- but he's generally a little less cautious of other people when he does stuff. And it depends on what you mean by a "formal setting." When we're around people we don't really know, we pretty much act the same. But when we're around our friends, we're very different. -- Anonymous |
| A5 I'm also an ISFj who has a good ISTj friend. I agree with what A3 said - my ISTj friend tends to be much more outgoing and gregarious, whereas I am content to just take in everything that is happening around me, not making a marked effort to socialize. -- Anonymous |
| A6 I usually test as an ISTJ, but get confused by some type descriptions that seem to tell the story of an accountant/cold/Mr. Spock. I don't feel I'm that way and would hate to deal with that much detail. A3 helps me feel the style is right for me as I am logical, but can be charming and outgoing when it seems right. So thanks! -- Anonymous |
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